And if there is someone reading this, you know who you are, I know what you are thinking.  You are thinking it's about time he realized what it feels like.  I understand now and understand why you were upset most of the time.  Still though you knew I wasn't going to change but you still wanted me to.  That is what I just learned, so okay I understand a little better what you were dealing with when you dealt with me.  Just thought you deserved to know that bit of info since you put up with me for a couple of years even though you shouldn't have and it was your choice, but it's hard letting go.  I still put up with you as well though so don't think it was all my fault.  Some people just aren't suited to be together.  We have to learn sometime though right?

All of that was rhetorical as well, no reply needed.